THE SIDE CHICK SYNDROME.....

If you ask me, a side chick is someone who is just an man's bed-warmer. A man can have as many side-chicks as he wants, so long as he can cater for them all the time. As a lady, once you start dating a man who is married, BABE!!! you are a side chick and nothing more. If you have decided to share a man with another woman, be ready to share him with many other women.

You do expect a man who is cheating on his wife to be fateful to you. Girlfriend, trust me you are not the first and would never be the last. So take a chill and love to share, because that is what what you will be doing for a long long while till you decide to stop being a side chick. 

Well I am saying this because of a letter I read about her cheating lover who is a MARRIED MAN, LOL.  Dear sister You are funny. anyway, this is what the letter says. Read and tell us what you think about it. 

" I've been dating **** for two & a half years now, I feel like he promised me so many things, it's clear now he will never follow through with it so I am coming forward. He's a dirty dog, been sleeping with all kinds of girls, flying them all over the world, gifting them while I'm one of the Lagos pit stops. I actually thought I was his only chick! I feel so stupid & maybe I'll regret this one day but I have to do this. I could have been married instead of wasting my time with him so I have to get him back.

"He promised me a furniture/interior design business with an office on Kofo Abayomi which he lied about. He promised me a car & place but never does anything & starts ignoring my msgs about it. My good guy friend introduced us & I should have saw the signs. He always treated me like a side chick even while we're out, I have to hide like the girl on the side while he flirts & dances with other babes & then be shoved into another car by his assistant **** for late nights only, like I embarrass him. He's been sending his jet to pick up girls while I fly commercial not even on first class, taking them on luxurious trips, I just found some dirty girl he's been seeing for God knows how long who is a known prostitute & I'm just so heated about it. I feel used & betrayed. Don't worry I have a big surprise for him & his wife at his birthday party. Since I'm always hidden I'm sure he's inviting his ashewo & probably 40 girls to satisfy him on his big day."

Imagine!!! You want to spoil a married man's birthday because he cheated on you with other 'ashewos'. What is different between you and the other ashewos biko? LOL...